Sunday, March 20, 2011
The Victim
You play the victim when all along, you've been the one committing the crimes. You act like you're being denied your children when you haven't even volunteered to stop by on your way home to see them. So you're working extra hours? Who said that if you wanted to see your kids that you couldn't stop by to give them hugs and kisses. You want them to learn about God so much? Why haven't you taken them to church? You think that your partner leaving is her fault and that she's tearing apart the family? What did YOU do to cause her to feel that she needs to leave and have lost the love for you that she once had? Have you thought that they were so done with the "old you" that they don't even want the "new you" because you made your changes a little too late? Why fight with them? Make the best of it for the kids. Don't cause so much stress between the two of you when it's only going to reflect on the children.
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Sooo true, when someone gets made that they can't have it their way, they blame others for the things that they have done wrong. Why is it that they do this and think it is ok to do this? When they need to step back and look at themselves to see why everything has gone the way it has? Until they come to terms with their own faults they can't judge anyone else!!!! I just hope and wish people would look at themselves and see what it is that they need to do to change themselves for themselves and no one else just to make a relationship work. I try to not judge people for their actions but it is hard not to. maybe one of these days we all could get along and not have all the messed up drama in our lives!!!!!!!!!!
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